Yesterday, K** was at the dance club and I came up to her, during my first round around the venue, to talk to her and her friend. She wasn't alone this time, she brought a female friend. I can't help but notice that girls have friends of similar attractiveness, mostly: a tiny girl would bring a tiny friend, and they are both attractive. A medium-attractiveness girl would have a medium-attractiveness friend. And the big ladies would all be together, in one big group.

So I was talking with her, asking whether she took the class today. Her friend said, she doesn't need the class, because she knows how to dance. I asked her friend to "show me" and commented, that that's how to discourage someone from showing you: by saying, show me. Surprisingly - or perhaps antagonistically? - at that time K** said "I'll show you," and took off dancing, with the female friend that she brought. They danced for more than a song - they danced for two songs, and at the beginning of the second song, seeing that it is happening, I left the stop where we conversed.

I went to finish my round around the venue, to chat with friends - which I did. On the other side of the dance floor, there were some acquaintances of mine, and I chatted with them. After that, I noticed that K** and her friend have left the club. It was pretty early - I just came in. It was neight crowded nor empty, a usual Friday at that venue.

Now, either K** is playing games with me, or she is genuinely not interested in getting to know me. Either way is perfectly fine - her behavior liberates my attention. I don't have to deal with people who express disinterest.

Provided, I expressed disinterested in her, but walking away - but she has already expressed disinterest at that time, by leaving me alone. And by being with a friend, she makes herself less available. When females gang up, they tend to cock block each other, and engage in other irrational behavior "for protection" that results in propagation of progressivist values. For example, a group of 3 females is very difficult to approach.

And if K** and her friend would continue dancing for another song - three in a row - that would make it clear that they did not want to talk. It would be surprising, but the message would have been clear. And what kind of message would I be sending them if I stuck around waiting for them to come back to talk to me? A message of personal weakness, perhaps? And if I was supposed to stick around to show my availability, so to speak, to make them feel protected with my continuous presence - well, they should not have left me, should they?

So either through neglect, or deliberate act-playing, or borderline hostility, they expressed disinterest, which ended my conversation with them that night, and possibly permanently going forward. I didn't dwell on it too much - there were several other interesting follows present, so I went dancing with them. P2** was there, she is a good dancer, and a new attendee. And I am getting friendlier with D**, I enjoy her company, she is becoming a friend - so we chatted up a lot.

Overall, I left past midnight - spending about 3 hours there, not a terrible night. Not very eventful, the venue was almost empty, but at least I went out, and I'm clocking in social hours as I wanted to do, every week.